Tuesday, August 25, 2009
Hmm... jus a random post...
stubborn Vs Insensitivity...
not sayin anyone... realli... jus find this type of couples kinda cute? stubbornness... sounds like me :D i understand tat totally... cos my past r/s a few months ago was Stubborn Vs Stubborn? its true... yep maybe cos of tat we cant get along after so long...
Stubbornness... a root word for 'U cant change wad i think even though u force me to' is not a very gd word to describe... it jus simply means we set our own principals b4 we start our life... these principals also can be broken if one either feel is too much or if one wanna change for the person he/she likes... but there are still some who keep their principals always to themselves and will not change even though how much he/she love a person... this isnt gd, nor it is bad... is abt wad type of angle u see the person as...
Insensitivity... oblivious to someone's feeling... i dunno the probability of whether a person is on purpose or not... but yep... to me... sometimes is realli cos the other party dun reveal his/her character for one to see... therefore the actions one does will sometime tick the other party off... its not exactly the person's fault... i can jus say its both parties fault... why? cos firstly the person who did this dun understand the other party well... tats why he did it not on purpose... tats why he got a big problem out dere... the other party? its kinda his/her fault for not showin his/her character to allow one to know his/her character... therefore it can be said tat both parties are either at fault or not at fault... some examples are like... It's not always the person who disturbs u at fault, why cant u turn round the and blame the one being disturb at fault becos he/she cant prevent the person from disturbing him/her in the first place? thats why... in a r/s there is no right or wrong... any quarrels is always both parties wrong... however some OTHER EXTRA ppl aka watch-show-people will choose to take sides and cause more conflicts between the 2 ppl...
Also, there is no such thing as i understand so and so 100%... cos tats bullshyt... u cant tell someone's hidden feelin for u... and yeh... thinkin too much will lead to undesirable climax... like breakin up... like my case too... yepp ^^ all over now... dunnit say so much oso... hahas...
there are onli 2 paths in ur r/s...
#1. tok it all out whenever there is a prob...
pros- its a first bitter later sweet path... as quarreling DOES help in bondin a r/s (read some books peeps ^^)
cons- becos its a first bitter later sweet path, ur start will be very rocky... but all's well ends well
#2. endure and forget matter
pros- u will have a very happy start... once a party cnt take it anymore... bye =)
cons- first sweet later bitter path... only some can make it to this saying called, 'first sweet, later bitter but later sweet again' hahas... its like outta every 10 couples, maybe 3 can make it? ahhas...
thats all abt this post...=)
now for some unrelated stuffs frm the top...
Yep... i dun respect ppl who tell tall tales to bring his/her frens ard... i esp detest ppl like those... maybe readin more books or gettin a life does help u... dun get too stress and start ruin-in others life...
to another one... i onli asked u if we wanna be frens... jus reply yes or no... dun beat ard the bush to tell me no... sometimes short and sweet reply does help a lot... yep... i m cool with it... i wun hate u for tat so relax :)
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